I can only remember back to the 50's.
1) Women did the family wash once a week , usually on Mondays. It was a big job, as there was no washing machine. My mother used a big copper full of boiling water, and moved the clothes around with a long wooden sick.
2) Ironing was done the day after the washing for obvious reasons. My mother had a dry iron, she would use a damp cloth and put that over the garment, then iron over it to produce steam. She also used starch in a little spray bottle, which she used like the spray starches today. The clothes always looked immaculate when she'd finished - this job took hours to complete.
3) People wore their underwear and socks once, just like today.
4) Shoes were polished once a week at may place - and each day they were wiped to ensure that they looked good. People took a lot of pride in having shiny clean shoes.
5) My mother made all of our clothing. She made everything from school uniforms to evening dresses, woolen coats and night clothing. She knitted all our winter garments and Dad's socks. Shoes were bought as they were needed.
6) Yes , they definitely lasted longer.
7) My mother got a washing machine in about the early 60's.
8) A big copper was filled with water and it was boiled. The copper was about as big as a 44 gallon drum. It had a gas jet underneath which you lit and allowed the water to boil. Then some soap powder was put in. You put the white clothes in first - shirts, towels, sheets. These things were boiled ( you treated any stains before putting the clothes into the copper so the stains would not set). After boiling for about 15 minutes, you lifted the clothes out with a long stick and dropped them into a sink full of cold water and pushed them around for a few minutes. Then you picked them up and squeezed the water out of them. Then you put more water into the sink and repeated the process until there was no further soapy water coming out of the clothes. You wrung them out,then put them on the line. This was all done in the early morning so the things had all day to dry. Coloured clothing was washed last, to ensure no leaking of the colour into other clothes. The whole process took my mother about half a day to do.
9) I first saw a dryer in the 70's.
10) Clothes lines were used until dryers came into use.